The All-or-Nothing Marriage: How the Best Marriages Work Audiobook (Free)

“After years of debate and inquiry, the main element to an excellent marriage continued to be shrouded in mystery. Until now…”-Carol Dweck, writer of Mindset: THE BRAND NEW Psychology of Success

Eli J. Finkel’s insightful and ground-breaking analysis of marriage clearly shows that the best relationships today are much better than the best relationships of previously eras. Certainly, they are the best marriages the world provides ever known. He presents his findings here for the very first time in this lucid, inspiring guide to about The All-or-Nothing Relationship: The way the Best Marriages Work contemporary marital bliss.

The All-or-Nothing Marriage reverse engineers fulfilling marriages-from the “traditional” towards the absolutely nontraditional-and shows how any marriage could be better.

The principal function of marriage from 1620 to 1850 was food, shelter, and protection from violence; from 1850 to 1965, the purpose revolved around love and companionship. But today, a new kind of relationship has emerged, one oriented toward self-discover, self-esteem, and personal growth. Finkel combines cutting-edge medical research with useful tips; he considers pathways to better conversation and responsiveness; he offers help with when to recalibrate our anticipations; and he even introduces a couple of must-try “lovehacks.”

This is a book for the newlywed to the empty nester, for all those thinking about getting married or remarried, and for anyone searching for illuminating advice that may make a real difference to getting the most out of marriage today.

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